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Tuesday, March 07, 2006
Tuesday, March 07, 2006
ahakz im wide awake...lookin at e time tick tock tick tock its 3 am ...*ohno* ahakz nvm tomolo im on AL...sending my grandpa n aunt to e airport ...tey goin to umrah...uwakz gona miss my grandpa badly...thou sumtimes we had sum disagreement but still hes e best granddad...jus wishing him n my aunt having gd health upon reachin tere n able to perform teir prayers smoothly...
ahakz jus now online in pdr or pdc ekh...lupa ah e cortform...aneway if im wrg sorie abt tat... came across tis topic abt RELAKAH ANDA MNJADI 2nd wife....
as for me staunchly follow my heart NO NO NO in my dictionary ...cos i know how it feels...wen teir loved ones have to be share wit another women whom it used to be her own n now hav to be in pertnership....wen thru tis experience brought up in a dvorce family wherby both of tem have teir own family eventually...e matter of fact after tey get married tey wunt feel e lost of another partner BUT input tis in ur mind...e children sufferin badly...tey will feel lack of motherly luv if living wit father n vicee versa..its true sum may say tat tey have step mother but it wunt be e same...e felin is dift esp wen u r close wit ya mum...Jus imaggine how exhausted e child feel..tats wat i feel...(kinda side track a bit) back to e topic...being a 2nd wife is not easy u have to tink e social network surrounds u..thou u r not e root cause of e fallin of lovely home for sum cases...but e pressure will be on u...e blaming will continue...how long u can tolerate...we humans have our own limitations of tolerance...for tose who dcided to be e 2nd wife ...tink wisely no point regretin over a spill milk later on...its jus base frm true xperience frm my fwens whom maried as a 2nd wife...tey felt as if e whole world tumbling dwn...t3ir feelin r oways down unable to tink strait at times...
ANOTHER ISSue...if sumone were to ask me am im willin to allow my husband to remarry??? wat i can say ...i will jus leave it to faith...wat we plan it wunt be e way we want always...we have our ups n dwn...disatisfaction..ego...but if follow my heart i wudnt allow ...lets c which women in tis world willingly gving up teir loved ones to other party who came in half way ur lovely family...if tere is i wud personally wanna meet e lady.....sumtimes we have to tink rationale....why our huby wanna remary tere mus be a reason behind it...isit our fault aint takin well on his welbeing or cud it be possibly we cant produce babies??u see wen it cums to tis we have tink reasonably...for every man a desirable to have kids of teir own wen married is vry xpected..it wunt be e same of havin adopted child...as a women n wife we must undastand tem n try to find solutions behind evry disatisfaction in tem...tis will help to bloom e relationship btw e both of ya...both party have to be reasonable ...it jus crack in my brain moment ago...if women cant bear a child tey aint no choice to allow e hubby to remary in certain instances...wat abt if e men is impotent???wud tey allow teir wife to marry to otha men???
Princess signing off`*
_Ab0ut Me_
Nurhidayah
a Saggitarius born gal who prefers enjoying a simple life and appreciates friendship ..bless with a wondaful man hopes to be with him till deathbed falls apart..
_My Wishlist_
Lose weight
Watch
Car License (by nxt yr)
Short Getaway
Shoping Spree (dream on)
Marriage Bliss(insyallah)